One of the distinguishing qualities of a Christian as a
true follower of Jesus Christ is forgiveness. Jesus’ teaching on forgiveness
challenges everyone and every culture. You may not know how strong your faith
in Jesus is until you find yourself hanging on the cross of forgiveness. It can
never be an easy journey because forgiveness sets one on a pathway that opposes
the worldly and natural flow. That is why despite Jesus’ several explanations
and examples, Christians today still ask the question of how far they can go on
this journey of forgiveness.
Peter asked Jesus, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin against
me, and I forgive him?” Jesus’ response shows that forgiveness is not to be numbered,
but to be lived out. Counting it would mean it is external to us, but living it
out implies it is within us and part of our lives. In addition, he told the parable
of the unforgiving servant to demonstrate that forgiveness is part of our
relationship with God. The forgiveness we show to one another is not
disconnected from the forgiveness we receive from God. Thus, the question of
forgiveness is better understood if we pose the same question in relation to
God, saying, ‘How many times should God forgive me if I sin against Him.’ “If
you O Lord should mark our iniquities, O Lord, who could stand? But with you is
found forgiveness, that you may be revered.” (Ps 130:3-4).
Let us meditate on the prayer of Azariah from the midst of
the fire. While in that torment, instead of seeking revenge for his enemies, he
began to invoke the mercy of God. He acknowledged their sins, and offered the
pain as an oblation from a contrite heart and a humble spirit. Finally, he said,
“Do not put us to shame, but deal with us in your forbearance and in your abundant
mercy. Deliver us in accordance with your marvelous works, and give glory to
your name, O Lord!” The servant was put to shame because he refused to forgive
as his master forgave him. Forgiveness is never cheap nor easy; it comes at a
cost. And God has paid the highest cost for forgiveness on the cross. That is
why we constantly draw closer to Jesus for the grace to forgive. Amen.
Fr Jude Chinwenwa Nwachukwu, C.Ss.R
Saints Peter and Paul Catholic Church,
Tedi-Muwo, Ojo, Lagos.
Tuesday March 14th, 2023.
21st Lenten meditation
