Sunday, September 17, 2023

UN-NUMBERED FORGIVENESS

 Meditation for the Twenty-Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year A
(Sirach 27:30-28:7; Rm 14:7-9; Mt 18:21-35)

In our meditation today we reflect on the root and consequences of forgiveness. The readings testify that forgiveness is a divine mandate, which will affect our relationship with God. To understand and embrace the divine root of forgiveness is an important step in forgiving others. Forgiveness is one of the most challenging spiritual exercises. The human person will always want to base forgiveness within himself or around his hurt and feelings. This is one of the reasons it is difficult to forgive, and the reason Peter asked Jesus, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?”

 

Sooner or later, the human person realizes that his good will and capacity to forgive are not sustainable enough without divine grace. Then, anger, bitterness, grudge, enmity will begin to manifest. The first reading says, “Anger and wrath, these are abominations, and the sinful man will possess them.” These negative energies can make one seek vengeance on his neighbor. But he that takes vengeance will suffer vengeance from the Lord. In other words, forgiveness is a sign indicating the kind of relationship we have with God. That is why the unforgiving servant in the gospel parable was sent to the jailers till he should pay all his debt because that was how he treated his fellow servant. And the first reading asked, “Does a man harbor anger against another, and yet seek for healing from the Lord? Does he have no mercy toward a man like himself, and yet pray for his own sins”

 

Hence, in answering Peter’s question Jesus made us to understand that forgiveness is not centered on the human person, nor does it flow from the hurt one received. Forgiveness is not numbered; it is an example we learn from God, and a gift we receive from Him. As we meditate on the parable of the unforgiving servant, it becomes obvious that those who are indebted to us by their misdeeds or offences remind us that we are all debtors before God, who blesses us with unmerited forgiveness. That means to forgive others is to share with them in joyful celebration and gratitude the mercy of God; it becomes an acknowledgment and witnessing to the divine love that wipes away our debts.

 

In the words of the second reading, to forgive others becomes our concrete demonstration that we do not live for ourselves, and none of us dies to himself. We belong to Jesus, we live and die for Jesus, and not to anyone or to any hurt others must have cause us. That is why forgiveness cannot be numbered nor based on trespasses. But forgiveness is a demonstration of how much we have allowed Jesus to be Lord over us, and thus, count every other thing as loss. In this way, forgiveness becomes our constant witnessing, and great proclamation of God’s mercy and compassion. Amen.

 

Fr Jude Chinwenwa Nwachukwu, C.Ss.R

Saints Peter and Paul Catholic Church,

Tedi-Muwo, Ojo, Lagos.

Sunday September 17th, 2023.

www.nwachinwe.blogspot.com

 

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