Silence comes alive! It bounces back as the clearest sound—the authentic message. Deep within, it constitutes an encounter both with God and with the self. Welcome to The Sound of Silence where I serve you with the fruits of my silence.
Friday, May 29, 2015
SILENCE IN THE LITURGY
The liturgy of the Church gives room for silence. We see this in the brief pauses before prayers, the prolonged pause after the homily and Holy Communion, etc. These moments of silence indicate that in the Mass, we offer, not just external gestures or acts, but our whole selves; our hidden selves. Silence is important in the Liturgy.
It gives room for the internalization of the mysteries we celebrate, or rather, the personalization of the objective sacrifice of the Body of Christ, the Church. If silence is destroyed, the celebration becomes more external than internal, and may be reduced to a ‘’show’’. The moments of silence in the Liturgy give deeper meaning to our singing and clapping.
In fact, it is as if all the moments of ‘’noise’’ are directed towards the period of silence and awaits it. Silence shines out in the liturgy as the culminating point of our external gestures. In other words, without this heightening point, the external gestures appear to be open ended. And when this occurs, in-depth and lasting fulfillment from these external gestures may not be felt.
As an act, silence enables us to open our inner life to the spiritual reality we celebrate. As the liturgy is the action of Christ through the Church, we must learn to give way to Christ to lead us and draw us to a deeper communion. We must not forget that it is around His table that we gather; we must not forget that the priest only stands in persona Christi, i.e. it is Jesus who offers Himself but through the action of the Church. These deep mysteries are loudly expressed in the liturgy when we pause before prayers and observe moments of silence. Here silence speaks to us about the Unseen, and deepens us into the mystery we celebrate.
Links to previous articles in the series 'Why am I afraid of Silence?'
Part I: Silence Confronts http://nwachinwe.blogspot.com/2009/12/why-am-i-afraid-of-silence.html
part II: The Nature of Silence (a): Silence as Behaviour http://nwachinwe.blogspot.com/2015/05/why-am-i-afraid-of-silence-ii-silence.html
(b): 'The Conscious Rest' http://nwachinwe.blogspot.com/2015/05/the-conscious-rest.html
(c) Silence and Spirituality http://nwachinwe.blogspot.com/2015/05/silence-and-spirituality.html
Fr Jude Nwachukwu, C.Ss.R
National Shrine of Our Mother of Perpetual Help,
Ugwogo-Nike, Enugu, Nigeria.
Feast of Pentecost, May 24, 2015
Tuesday, May 26, 2015
SILENCE AND SPIRITUALITY
Part II (C) Silence and Spirituality
If silence is an act, and a form of
communication, why can’t it be used as a means of prayer? Since we can pass message
to each in silence, then we can equally interact with God in silence. God sees
in secret and hears the promptings of our hearts (Mt 6:18, Rm 8:27). Our
ability to communicate in silence is one of those unique qualities of man that
distinguishes him from other animals, and makes him ‘little less than the gods’(Ps 8:5). God communicates to us both in silence and in speech, and we can
reach Him or rather, respond to Him in both ways.
In silence we communicate from
the heart, not just lip’s service! More so, we communicate with the
heart. Further still, in silence we communicate the heart! This
is where friendship and bond are formed. Hence, prayer offered in silence (or
from the silence of the heart) transforms and unites us the more with God.
The restless and noisy society we
commonly experience these days is a reflection of the people’s restless hearts,
which remain restless until they rest in God, as St. Augustine would
say. A heart that encounters God is less noisy and more humble. Calmness and tranquillity
are part of the strength of those filled with the Holy Spirit. Therefore,
silence is a grace. Thus, we not only need to pray in silence, we equally need
to pray for the gift of silence.
‘Be still and know that I am God’ (Ps
46:10). Allowing God to lead the way; to determine the paths we follow, is a
grace beyond measure. It is in the stillness of our hearts that we can
recognize the God who is active in our lives, give way to Him and follow
accordingly. Silence is a grace, a treasure, a platform for interpersonal
encounter with God. It is a catalyst to spiritual growth.
Links to previous articles in the series 'Why am I afraid of Silence?'
Part I: Silence Confronts http://nwachinwe.blogspot.com/2009/12/why-am-i-afraid-of-silence.html
part II: The Nature of Silence (a): Silence as Behaviour http://nwachinwe.blogspot.com/2015/05/why-am-i-afraid-of-silence-ii-silence.html
(b): 'The Conscious Rest' http://nwachinwe.blogspot.com/2015/05/the-conscious-rest.html
Links to previous articles in the series 'Why am I afraid of Silence?'
Part I: Silence Confronts http://nwachinwe.blogspot.com/2009/12/why-am-i-afraid-of-silence.html
part II: The Nature of Silence (a): Silence as Behaviour http://nwachinwe.blogspot.com/2015/05/why-am-i-afraid-of-silence-ii-silence.html
(b): 'The Conscious Rest' http://nwachinwe.blogspot.com/2015/05/the-conscious-rest.html
Friday, May 22, 2015
‘THE CONSCIOUS REST’
WHY AM I AFRAID OF SILENCE? PART II: The Nature of Silence (b) The Conscious Rest
We continue to look at the inner
life of silence. From the preceding write-ups, we are convinced that silence is
an act. As the Psychologist postulated, it can be learned or unlearned. If
silence belongs to the realm of action, it then means it is self-generated and
involves an active mind. It is not mere
passivity. This is because a silent man is attentive, or rather, he projects
his mind to gather and process information at the same time. He picks up and
retains data more efficiently.
This twofold dimensional
reflective psychological projection consumes energy. Simply put: silence can be
energy sapping and can generate tension. So one not schooled in it can easily
become uncomfortable when confronted by silence; he gets wearied out by it. In the
article below (http://nwachinwe.blogspot.com/2015/05/why-am-i-afraid-of-silence-ii-silence.html), it was discovered that frequent exposure to ‘background noise’ leads
to fear of silence.
On the other hand, silence can be
healthy and energy-giving. It can be a source of replenishing lost strength and
healing wounds. As an act that goes in the two directions—outwards and inwards—it
bounces back on us to restore lost confidence. Since silence is first and
foremost and internal job, it recreates the inner self. In silence we do not
merely give ourselves out, rather we receive more than we give out i.e. less
information is given out, more is accumulated. Though silence is a conscious
act, it inclines one to the direction of inactivity. Ironically, we can say
that in silence the mind is consciously at rest. ‘’Conscious rest’’ is another name I give to
silence. Thus, we are refreshed and internally more secure when we embrace
silence. Yes, this can be obvious if we consider that the gathering and
assimilation of more data brings confidence and tranquillity to the silent
mind.
From the foregoing, it is obvious
that I am afraid of silence when it confronts me. And it confronts me when I do
not practice it. Therefore, the key to
overcoming the fear of silence is to keep learning it or practicing it. The
extent of the uneasiness we experience when confronted by silence goes a long
way to show how poor a student are we at the school of silence.
Fr. Jude C. Nwachukwu, C.Ss.R
Mother of Perpetual Help Shrine,
Ugwogo-Nike, Enugu, Nigeria.
Tuesday, May 19, 2015
WHY AM I AFRAID OF SILENCE? II: Silence as Behaviour
After some years of break, I am making a renewed
effort to continue the reflection I published in 2009 titled, WHY AM I AFRAID
OF SILENCE? Click here for the first part, titled ‘Silence Confronts’ http://nwachinwe.blogspot.com/2009/12/why-am-i-afraid-of-silence.html
A guest writer has spurred me on to continue the reflection by initiating part
2, which attempts to answer the question: ‘What kind of silence am I afraid of?’
To answer this question, we must look at the nature of silence. Our guest
writer, as a Psychologist, views silence from the dimension of human actions or
behaviour. Subsequently, we shall draw other impacts of silence, including spirituality and relationship.
Silence is said to mean the absence of intentional sounds. By intentional sounds we mean things we turn on, like TVs. I-pods, words we speak, and the ones we hear, music, game sounds, etc. By this definition of silence, we can say that silence is a purposeful quietness, and also an action.
Fear of silence is also said to be a learnt behaviour. This theory can be supported with a research conducted by Drs Michael Bittman and Mark Sipthorp with 580 undergraduate students.[1] This research was undertaken over six years, and the result shows that constant accessibility and exposure to background media leads to fear of silence. Since fear of silence of silence is a learnt behaviour, it can also be unlearned by confronting the experience of silence.
SILENCE AS AN ACTION
Silence implies consent. This is a concept in "Social Interaction" which means that people tend to assume silence to an action as tacit approval of that action. For instance, when there is an issue and you are being silent, others may interpret that as consent. Silence on the other hand can mean objecting. Example, if somebody calls you an idiot and you remain silent, it can mean that the person is too much of an idiot to deserve a response.
Summarily,
silence is an action which implies consent and also an objection, depending on
the purpose it is being used.
Written by:
Adachukwu Umeh, B.Sc. Psy
amikangel4real@yahoo.com
Excerpts:
SILENCE AS BEHAVIOUR
Silence is said to mean the absence of intentional sounds. By intentional sounds we mean things we turn on, like TVs. I-pods, words we speak, and the ones we hear, music, game sounds, etc. By this definition of silence, we can say that silence is a purposeful quietness, and also an action.
Fear of silence is also said to be a learnt behaviour. This theory can be supported with a research conducted by Drs Michael Bittman and Mark Sipthorp with 580 undergraduate students.[1] This research was undertaken over six years, and the result shows that constant accessibility and exposure to background media leads to fear of silence. Since fear of silence of silence is a learnt behaviour, it can also be unlearned by confronting the experience of silence.
SILENCE AS AN ACTION
Silence implies consent. This is a concept in "Social Interaction" which means that people tend to assume silence to an action as tacit approval of that action. For instance, when there is an issue and you are being silent, others may interpret that as consent. Silence on the other hand can mean objecting. Example, if somebody calls you an idiot and you remain silent, it can mean that the person is too much of an idiot to deserve a response.
Written by:
Adachukwu Umeh, B.Sc. Psy
amikangel4real@yahoo.com
[1]Hofmann, G. (2013). Our Fear of
Silence.Psych Central.Retrieved on April 23, 2015 from
http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2013/01/16/our-fear-of-ilence.
Wednesday, May 6, 2015
Silence and Joy!
In this reflection I would like to highlight two aspects of Easter which
might seem contradictory, but they are aspects of our faith which co-exist in
every authentic Christian.
The first is SILENCE
On Holy Thursday evening we ended our celebration in Silence: the whole Church fell silent at the stripping of the altar, at the watching and waiting with Jesus, at the beginning of his Passion. The bells were silenced, the lights were dimmed, a physical silence encouraged us to go deeper into an interior silence in the face of the mystery of a suffering God.
The Stations of the Cross on Friday morning led us through the physical and emotional pain of Jesus as condemned, Jesus as faltering on his Way of the Cross, till we reached the Solemn Celebration of his death in the afternoon –when Jesus experienced the silence of the Father. Our Liturgy began and ended in solemn silence.
The silence of the tomb continued all day Saturday, silence and stillness over all the earth as the body of Jesus lay in the tomb. In the silence of Holy Saturday we touch on inner silence of God, the silence of the descent into the realm of the dead, the silence of waiting. Then sometime in the deep silence of the night Jesus is raised from the dead: the Resurrection happens in silence. It is not seen by anyone, it is not heard by anyone, it is a miracle heralding a completely new kind of existence, for which we have no adequate language, no adequate symbols, no adequate explanation. It transforms our stuttering silence into the silence which is God.
The silence of the Resurrection means that silence can be a key to the greatest and most overwhelming mystery there is: that Jesus did not remain dead but broke through to Resurrection life, and infinitely significant for us, that we too can share his Risen life, already.
The second aspect is JOY
An irrepressible aspect of the Resurrection is JOY: the joy of overcoming death, the joy of the new kind of existence, the joy of God. The joy of the Resurrection permeates all Christian existence:
We encounter Christian joy already in the Annunciation :Rejoice. It is echoes in Mary’s song of Joy “My spirit rejoices in God my Saviour”.
Jesus remarked that he taught the things of God “so that my joy may be in you”.
The disciples “rejoiced” at the sight of the Risen Christ and the Acts of the Apostles tell us that wherever the disciples went “there was great joy” not withstanding the fierce persecutions.
The Joy of the Resurrection is the Joy of New Birth: that we are changed, that change for the better is always possible. Pope Francis talks about “the great stream of JOY” into which we are plunged, a stream of joy which can purify us, which can wash away old way of living and doing things.
Easter joy is revolutionary: it gives hope a permanent and prominent role in everyday life. And without hope life would become meaningless and unbearable : “if Christ has not been raised, then our preaching is in vain”
I suggest that there is a golden thread connecting Silence and Joy: it is the hidden life of the Spirit in us. “The life you have is hidden with Christ in God” (Col. 3:3). This means that we can always relate to God through silence, it means that nothing –not even death- can quench the profound joy of knowing and sharing the New Life of the Risen Christ.
The first is SILENCE
On Holy Thursday evening we ended our celebration in Silence: the whole Church fell silent at the stripping of the altar, at the watching and waiting with Jesus, at the beginning of his Passion. The bells were silenced, the lights were dimmed, a physical silence encouraged us to go deeper into an interior silence in the face of the mystery of a suffering God.
The Stations of the Cross on Friday morning led us through the physical and emotional pain of Jesus as condemned, Jesus as faltering on his Way of the Cross, till we reached the Solemn Celebration of his death in the afternoon –when Jesus experienced the silence of the Father. Our Liturgy began and ended in solemn silence.
The silence of the tomb continued all day Saturday, silence and stillness over all the earth as the body of Jesus lay in the tomb. In the silence of Holy Saturday we touch on inner silence of God, the silence of the descent into the realm of the dead, the silence of waiting. Then sometime in the deep silence of the night Jesus is raised from the dead: the Resurrection happens in silence. It is not seen by anyone, it is not heard by anyone, it is a miracle heralding a completely new kind of existence, for which we have no adequate language, no adequate symbols, no adequate explanation. It transforms our stuttering silence into the silence which is God.
The silence of the Resurrection means that silence can be a key to the greatest and most overwhelming mystery there is: that Jesus did not remain dead but broke through to Resurrection life, and infinitely significant for us, that we too can share his Risen life, already.
The second aspect is JOY
An irrepressible aspect of the Resurrection is JOY: the joy of overcoming death, the joy of the new kind of existence, the joy of God. The joy of the Resurrection permeates all Christian existence:
We encounter Christian joy already in the Annunciation :Rejoice. It is echoes in Mary’s song of Joy “My spirit rejoices in God my Saviour”.
Jesus remarked that he taught the things of God “so that my joy may be in you”.
The disciples “rejoiced” at the sight of the Risen Christ and the Acts of the Apostles tell us that wherever the disciples went “there was great joy” not withstanding the fierce persecutions.
The Joy of the Resurrection is the Joy of New Birth: that we are changed, that change for the better is always possible. Pope Francis talks about “the great stream of JOY” into which we are plunged, a stream of joy which can purify us, which can wash away old way of living and doing things.
Easter joy is revolutionary: it gives hope a permanent and prominent role in everyday life. And without hope life would become meaningless and unbearable : “if Christ has not been raised, then our preaching is in vain”
I suggest that there is a golden thread connecting Silence and Joy: it is the hidden life of the Spirit in us. “The life you have is hidden with Christ in God” (Col. 3:3). This means that we can always relate to God through silence, it means that nothing –not even death- can quench the profound joy of knowing and sharing the New Life of the Risen Christ.
Easter Reflection 2015
From the Provincial Superior
Redempotrists of South Africa.
Sent in by, Fr Andrew Ogbu, C.Ss.R http://andikincssr.blogspot.com/
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